Day 9 - What are you attracted to most in the same/opposite sex? Are you more for looks, or personality?

Being human, we rely most on our five senses to take in impressions. Usually we'd take in the looks and attitude of a person before we make a judgement on them. It's when we get closer that we use our sixth sense - intuition.

I'm not really into same sex people, but I think for girls, visual first impressions are really important. In fact, all visual first impressions are crucial. For example you work in a really big office with lots of competition, if you were to dress like a beggar on the street, the client won't care how good you are, they'll go for the smartly dressed one.

Back to the topic. I'd take in a guy's exterior before examining his interior, if you know what I mean. He doesn't need to be Cam Gigandet or Brad Pitt (my boyfriend is quite far from that), but he should be good-looking enough to be eye candy.

So once I've secured a target, I'd aim for the "acquaintance", then the "friend" status, but somehow it's too bloody obvious that I'm too bloody desperate that they shy away. But if I could, I'd become his friend before thinking of entering a relationship.

Looks aren't everything, but it can't be ignored. The most attractive thing to me of a guy would be his frame and build - muscle, height, strength, etc. Once an attraction is established and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way with me, I'll find out his personality. I won't go for egoists or clingy people (I've experience there).